Your Cheatin' Heart...

Poor Sandra!

What is it, less than two weeks after the Academy Awards and Sandra Bullock's husband is outed?!? After all the nice things she said about him...I feel so bad for her. If anyone watched the Babara Walter's special after the awards show - which I did for once in my life because it was her last special and the woman is getting quite frail - Sandra said of her marriage - that for the first time in her life, she knew what it was like to have someone watch her back. Psyche! Wow, what a blow! On the other hand, Monique - who won for best supporting actress, claimed in her interview that she and her husband have an open marriage, that if her husband has a sexual relationship with someone else, it is not a deal-breaker. Wha? Huh? Well...I guess...if it works for you...then c'est la vie.
I mean for me, it's a deal-breaker. Having witnessed the dissolution of so many of my friend's marriages, my relative's marriages, all I can say is - while you might conjecture in your little logical mind that it's all good, chances are your heart says otherwise.
I guess that's why cheating is a no-no in a romance novel. Nothing good can come of it. I know I want a man who wants to be with me and if he doesn't then I hope he has the decency to tell me, especially before I make a fool of myself. Damn!